I so know what your talking about krupp.... I ordered my solstice,,, and then with in just a few months ,,, I ordered the tulip head. But when I would wear the asscher set in the tulip,,, I was all day long going to my jewelry and looking at the round in my solstice... then the asscher got put away and I was just wearing the round... until I decided to sale the asscher,,, and within days it was on another hand and it didn't bother me at all,,, it was a beautiful ring,,, but I know now that I'm a round girl at heart,,, waistline and all!!!! lol!!!