I don't know. I understand emotional attachments but I don't generally call my jewelry 'she'or give them names. I don't assign a gender or name to the furniture or my favorite cooking pots or my shoes either. I also don't name my cars but my dad named his cars girl names and called them she. I don't get that either. LOL
I guess I could give it a try.
I'm going to name my car Hope. I hope she lives until the kids are done with college!!

I'm going to name my wedding ring Percy. I persevered 20 years of marriage to get her.
My original diamond (now in a pendant) shall be Anima, because she is always close to my heart.

That's not too bad...but I don't think it will stick. LOL.