I have nothing against diamonds, and actually prefer them, but if you do NOT want one for any reason, then you need to get what you want. However, if you aren't opposed to them, I would use some of the other rescources others have listed here to source a different one. While I don't mind how that one looks, and it says it is cert'd, there is no cert pic. And the photo does look stock. If not, it is on a black background with bad lighting, so you cannot get an accurate look at the colour. It is also listed as a very good cut, and I seriously doubt that, The symmetry is noticably off, and while that is standard in old cuts, it should be priced accordingly.

So when comparing the Asha ACC to this, the Asha is essentially perfect...That in itself makes it somewhat unrealistic, as real old cuts are far from, but that is part of their charm. I myself prefer the "perfect" look of newly cut stones made to look old with a chunky faceting pattern, but I know lots of others that love the unique-ness of their antique stones; imperfections and all.

I agree w/ Jcent about the Asha vs the OMC.

You cannot make a good decision about a diamond without seeing it in person. If you do think you may want to buy one online, make sure there is a good return policy.

I bought my OEC diamond from ebay, but I ordered and returned 3 of them before I found the one I decided to keep.

Thank you everyone...I really wasn't feeling that diamond either! I just wanted to kinda see what was out there and of course see what the pros here thought

He and I had another talk last night, and he does want me to get what I want-the problem is that he wants to make sure that a sim is really what I want. He doesn't want me to feel like I HAVE to get one because I don't think he'll be able to save the money or only because I want something bigger (duh!) than he'd be willing to spend that kind of money on. He's also intent on the fact that whatever ring I get is what I'll have forever. And I agree, which is why I've been putting so much time into settings. I don't think there's anything wrong with having an ACC of the same size as a backup just in case though!

The other problem is that he's talked to other people about the asha (which he calls "moissanite" despite that I've explained the difference) on more than one occasion. And the people he talked to last night, an older couple, "know a diamond guy" (doesn't everyone have someone who's said that to them?) that can get him a great diamond. I explained to him that he CAN'T talk to other people about this, everyone will have pre-conceived notions (aka brainwashing) about sims and that I've done plenty of research.

I think I can keep working on him to get him to understand-I really really love the ACC I have and can't imagine finding a comparable diamond that I love half as much.

I'm removing myself from the e-ring project for a while...I'm going to focus on getting my grandmother's wedding ring restored instead-fun, right?

Thank you all so much!

Good decision, Frenchie. I've had to remove myself from projects from time to time. It's very easy to get caught up in the vortex of sparkle madness! I've been surprised at the decisions I've made after a mental hiatus. It's one of the reasons I've yet to set a loose sapphire. Just when I think I know what I want, I see some new mount, or inspiration ring, and it's back to the drawing board.

My hubby is not a big fan of sims either, and it has taken time for him to get used to my "hobby". I do agree that if you are mum on sims to your circle, he should be as well.

Have you posted photos of your g'ma's wedding ring?

I'm glad he finally came around.... Why is it so hard for them to understand we DON'T want a diamond? Lol.

I can't wait to see your grandmother's ring!

I can't wait to see your Grandmother's ring either! Also, is the ring in the avitar picture new?
(We need to catch up haha)

Frenchie- hope it's all going well with your hunt- I too am choosing an Asha for an e-ring and I feel like such a smartie because the cost of the equivalent in a "real" stone is just nuts. I mean it's a freakin down payment on a house! My boyfriend was nervous about it at first too- but I think because he was concerned that I was saying I loved it just to be nice to him- but I really do love it.

We went with the Krupp for an e-ring (which I am waiting for), but I am making my own christmas present- a RHR with a chunky legacy setting from Moissco and a 7mm ACC. Cannot wait ;-) What a fabulous looking stone!

Good luck and of course can't wait to see pics

Frenchie- hope it's all going well with your hunt- I too am choosing an Asha for an e-ring and I feel like such a smartie because the cost of the equivalent in a "real" stone is just nuts. I mean it's a freakin down payment on a house! My boyfriend was nervous about it at first too- but I think because he was concerned that I was saying I loved it just to be nice to him- but I really do love it.

We went with the Krupp for an e-ring (which I am waiting for), but I am making my own christmas present- a RHR with a chunky legacy setting from Moissco and a 7mm ACC. Cannot wait ;-) What a fabulous looking stone!

Good luck and of course can't wait to see pics

I agree with jcent. I love all stones. While I do prefer natural diamonds, i'm not opposed to sims or colored stone. My DH was the same when we got engaged. He wanted me to have an actual diamond. Thought i was worth it. And the whole what will people think if I don't. First off - you know you're worth. It. And secondly, most people won't know the asha's not a diamond unless you tell them. If people do ask, it's a good time to educate others out there.

It took the DH a little while to like sims, but now he thinks it's "smart". That being said. My plan one day is to replace my sims with natural diamonds or the amora gem (if it's really all what we expect it to be). Although I do love antique stones.
I love their uniqueness / wonky lines and I love inclusions. The color thing is the only thing that kills me. K color and under I can't deal with.

But do what you need to do. Most of my friends and I are vegans so having a sim is more important to them because they want to maintain their cruelty free lifestyle. I know loving real diamonds isn't very vegan of me, but what's a girl to do when they really are your best friend. Haha. But it is something I struggle with at times so good thing I have about 50/50 in my collection.

Express to him that you know you're worth real diamonds and you appreciate him wanting to do that, but make him see the importance of your choice. Owning a home, buying a car with cash, starting a family - etc.

If he still wants to go the natural route, then I do suggest old world diamonds and jewels by Erica grace. When the time comes for me to replace my sims, I'm using JbEG all the way. They are amazing people to work with!

I buy a lot of vintage jewelry on ebay/etsy at reasonable prices...plus with vintage jewelry you are not contributing to conflict diamonds b/c they are preowned items. There are a lot of beautiful cushion cut pieces, but you really have to hunt for a good deal.

That being said, the piece I wear more than anything else I own is an Asha Asscher. I get so many compliments....more than on any of my real diamonds! It is gorgeous and it was so affordable. I could by 14 of them for what most of my friends fiances spent on their one ring.