A woman shouldn't have to wait for a man to buy her jewelry. Treat yourself again and again and again..
Words of wisdom. I regard it as a bonus if my husband does this sort of thing, but I spoil myself, too--just like buying myself flowers when I want them. If you don't love yourself, who will?
#725920 - 03/27/1205:14 PMRe: Would you .....?
[Re: Baby Milo]
borismom
The Millenium Star
Registered: 09/19/04
Posts: 7336
Loc: South of the border
Exactly, Melodypond... I was married to a non gift giver, so I learned early to take care of myself, push presetnts and all... Treat yourself, get the ring, and if the time comes when you actually need a ring, get a new ring! Win-win situation to me.
#725924 - 03/27/1205:22 PMRe: Would you .....?
[Re: Baby Milo]
Sparkle!mom
Afficionado
Registered: 03/07/12
Posts: 436
Loc: New York
I WAS married to a gift-giver but now the same man has become a non-gift giver. Too bad now, a mortgage and 2 kids later I can't afford to treat myself the way i would like! I say BUY THAT RING while there isn't anyone around who will tell you NOT TO!
I agree! Get what you want, even if it looks like an ering, and just wear it as a rhr. You don't want to scare prospectives away
cherokeegirl, I am pretty sure you can collect your push presents well after you pushed. The pain lives forever in your mind, so as long as you still remember it, you still deserve the pressie.
hahahaha not sure I can get that one *approved* hahahaha
Good gosh I'm only 25, I sure hope I'll get married again since I would like a family and NO I will NOT settle just to get that. Terrible enablers! I should have known the answer already LOL!
#725997 - 03/27/1208:33 PMRe: Would you .....?
[Re: Baby Milo]
MissKK
Omniscient
Registered: 09/29/10
Posts: 2990
Loc: Snohomish, Washington
Originally Posted By: Baby Milo
Good gosh I'm only 25, I sure hope I'll get married again since I would like a family and NO I will NOT settle just to get that. Terrible enablers! I should have known the answer already LOL!
*high five* heck yes!
_________________________
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong!
#726000 - 03/27/1208:41 PMRe: Would you .....?
[Re: MissKK]
Olivejuice
Connoisseur
Registered: 02/16/12
Posts: 1515
Loc: East Coast
Originally Posted By: MissKK
I'm single and do you know how many solitaires and "ering" looking rings I have? Psh, why should having a 'man' in your life dictate sparkle! Life is short, get what you want and rock it!
again and again and again.. 
I say BUY THAT RING while there isn't anyone around who will tell you NOT TO!
Previous Topic
Index