my wedding set is similar to yours. But my engagement ring is a pear with a small pear set sideways on each side. Then for the wedding band, it's like yours - 2 tone - but 5 stones and I have 2 bands that are identical. It's a lot of hardware on my fat little finger but I do love it so. What you picked is just so elegant and beautiful. Really, it all is. Love the earrings. Those are great for the grocery store or the ballet. Perfect. And the wheat chain - I agree, that really makes it look substantial.