I know nikkikeith, I like you find myself using it but not because I think being gay is an issue. Anyway, I wouldn't want to be the super easily offended person either like morning glory said probably be miserable most of the time! I'd rather be the happiest I can be!

I saw a funny video on Youtube that 2 gay guys made trying to take back the phrase. It was really well done, and it totally got the point across.

Oh, I have to find that video!!