Awww Sim, I'm so sorry... But at the same time, so happy that one of the babies is doing so well and is healthy!

Sim,...this also just happened to someone I know!!
I guess it is very common..

I am so happy for the healthy baby!!
Are you going to find out what baby is??

thanks ladies, honestly i'm not sad, just relieved the decision was made for me. since it never developed I dont feel like i really lost it. does that make sense?

Kanga, my doc said it is very common and until recently they would never have even known there was a twin since they didn't used to do ultrasounds until week 12 or so.

i want to know if its a boy or girl ASAP! i will be analyzing all the ultrasounds very carefully. lol. don't know how DH feels but he will be overulled if he disagrees.

I find our March 12th and am so excited!! I know some people find the surprise exciting, but I don't, lol, and I *need* to know so I can plan accordingly. It is super hard to try to see the gender to untrained eyes. I had a lot of ultrasounds with my first due to complications and could never see , even after they told me what to look for. Ultrasound techs are like gods to me. How they can see anything is miraculous.

Soemthing like 30% of twins don't develop... I have had a few miscarriages, and it is the same sats. I am happy that you are excited and relaxed now though! Complications never make pregnancy enjoyable, and it really is such a specail time.

hey simgirl I just want to say how much your attitudes touched me! It's so nice to see someone that chooses to see the bright side of things, instead of focusing on what is wrong or could go wrong!

Congrats to you and your husband, and I hope m/s isn't too much to bear. With my first, it was miserable and I was depressed until about 16 weeks and then it's like the clouds are lifted and I was enjoying every minute of my growing belly! Hang in there, get as much sleep as you can and eat what *feels* good.

On that note, I like to add to the growing list! After 1 yr of trying naturally, we got pregnant! I am entering my 6th week, but other than frequent urination, tingling sensation in my boobs, and 2 days of fever and low-grade nausea, I got no other symptoms! Is that normal? With my DD, I was sick all day everyday until 16 weeks...this one feels so 'normal'. So the crazy in me took 4 tests in 4 different days, and the lines got darker as the week progresses....1st ultrasound in 3 weeks and I can't wait, just can't wait!

Congratulations ITD!!!

Congrats ITD! and thank you!

my m/s has seemed to be better this week, i can actually go to work.
i wonder if this is due to the second baby cutting out and a drop in hormones?

Thank you both Borismom and Simgirl!

Heard about multiples and the increase in hormone, so that would make sense.

Awww congrats about all the babies due in 2012, ladies! I wish you all lots of sticky and wellness vibes

This thread makes me want a babyyy! Haha, too bad I just turned 20 and have 2 yrs left of my undergrad degree! LOL

LOL Kat, I don't want any more babies, but I love everyone else's pregnancies and babies.