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I know what you are saying, and it is hard. But kids are hard, lol, and 2 will only be that much harder. I am not one that believe we can have it all. I think it is possible to have a lot and for it to be good, but some compromises will have to me made. Whether it is schedule, or taking less jobs...or daycare, only you and DH can decide.
A litle OT, but related, I ordered something from Etsy and the lead time is 10 weeks!!!! 10!!!! It is nothing that complicated, but they are just that busy. So if people really want something, they will wait a bit longer for it, or pay an additional fee to rush it. I wanted this for their room, but it wasn't urgent, so I sucked it up an got in the 10 week wait line. I should get it in 3 or 4 more weeks, lol.
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