My husband was the same way. He has finally changed his mind on my new ring. He won't tell anyone it's asha though. He feels a man should buy his wife the best. None of his co workers has ever questioned it. I love it. I have told ppl it's an asha but those only close to me.
I hope you love it.. If not get a diamond. I have asha earrings and love them. The only thing with them being in your hair you have to clean them all the time. I only wear diamond earrings so I don't have to take them out everyday and clean them. I sleep in them and everything.